Hey:) I don't know if you still need advice as this was posted awhile ago but I thought I would shell some out anyways:)
I have been in a situation where I completely dropped my best friend for a year, like you. When she started coming around again I was hesitant of her intentions as there was so much drama between us. I thought slowly and carefully about who she is and if we could really work it out. I now talk to her on the phone occasionally and hang out sometimes, but nothing like it used to be. She and I have a strong bond as we once knew so much about eachother, but we had both changed so much it wasn't in us to be best friends again. I think you need to ask yourself why she was your friend in the first place? Is she still that person and also calculate the risk of being her friend. Does it put you in bad situations? Will you be tempted to join her involvement in the things she does? I guess the last piece of advice I could offer is people who don't want to be helped won't accept it so be careful not to get your own heart broken in the process of trying to help her:)
I have been in a situation where I completely dropped my best friend for a year, like you. When she started coming around again I was hesitant of her intentions as there was so much drama between us. I thought slowly and carefully about who she is and if we could really work it out. I now talk to her on the phone occasionally and hang out sometimes, but nothing like it used to be. She and I have a strong bond as we once knew so much about eachother, but we had both changed so much it wasn't in us to be best friends again. I think you need to ask yourself why she was your friend in the first place? Is she still that person and also calculate the risk of being her friend. Does it put you in bad situations? Will you be tempted to join her involvement in the things she does? I guess the last piece of advice I could offer is people who don't want to be helped won't accept it so be careful not to get your own heart broken in the process of trying to help her:)
I hope this helped even a little bit:)