Wow! This has just made me really stop & think. My grandma has dementia & is now in a home due to many falls.... & well it has made me feel guilty. I get cross sometimes with the way she is now & forget the person that she was, what she endured to raise my Mum & Uncle. This has made me stop & think. I have lost 2 grandmas in the last year & neither were at my wedding: one as she has dementia & one as she will not talk to the family. So they too are alive & I get it! Thanks for that - allowed me to have a little moment x
Wow! This has just made me really stop & think. My grandma has dementia & is now in a home due to many falls.... & well it has made me feel guilty. I get cross sometimes with the way she is now & forget the person that she was, what she endured to raise my Mum & Uncle. This has made me stop & think. I have lost 2 grandmas in the last year & neither were at my wedding: one as she has dementia & one as she will not talk to the family. So they too are alive & I get it! Thanks for that - allowed me to have a little moment x
Certainly nothing to apologise for as far as I'm concerned.
Regarding the Boo, I think we start mourning someone as soon as we lose a connection with them regardless of whether the are alive or not. I was deeply moved by your sharing.
Sorry Mark / Steve for moaning about savvyplatforms link - my fault entirely it is now duly amended. And may I say I realise how over sentimental and self indulgent it is to be feeling like I'm in mourning before she is even physically gone - just how it is
Thankyou - I suppose I shouldf be thankful she is still here and hopeful for the moments where the mist blows over and she can see the view clearly - however briefly for a while.
Regarding the Boo, I think we start mourning someone as soon as we lose a connection with them regardless of whether the are alive or not. I was deeply moved by your sharing.